The journey
The 8 Levels of Elev8
Everyone starts at Level 0. Each level is a real question — the more you answer honestly, the higher you climb, and the more aligned people appear in your deck. Skipping questions keeps you lower.
- Lvl0LEVEL 00Arrival
Welcome — you're here. Set up your profile.
Everyone starts here. No judgment, no head start.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 0+ - Lvl1LEVEL 01Intention
Share your dating intentions — and why.
What are you actually looking for, and what's driving it?
Elevation task: Write a letter to your future partner. Begin with "To my future…" and share your dating intentions, how you plan to treat them, and what your expectations are in a healthy, elevated, aligned relationship.Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 1+ - Lvl2LEVEL 02Origin
What was your family dynamic growing up — and how do you see that time today?
Where you came from shapes how you love.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 2+ - Lvl3LEVEL 03Roots
What's your relationship with your parents? Married, separated, divorced?
Understanding the blueprint you've inherited.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 3+ - Lvl4LEVEL 04Pride
What are you most proud of?
The moments you've earned that make you, you.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 4+ - Lvl5LEVEL 05Fear
What's your biggest fear?
The honest stuff. Vulnerability is the price of depth.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 5+ - Lvl6LEVEL 06Non-negotiables
What are your top 5 non-negotiables?
The lines you won't cross — for any chemistry.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 6+ - Lvl7LEVEL 07Marriage
Are you interested in marriage?
Long-term clarity, short-term honesty.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 7+ - Lvl8LEVEL 08Communication
What's your communication style?
How you say it matters as much as what you say.
Unlocks alignment with anyone at Level 8+
Lvl8
LEVEL 09The Retreat
Meet in real life at the Elev8 Retreat
The final level happens off the app. Join the retreat waitlist.
Join the retreat waitlistLast updated September 23, 2026